The synastry chart reveals a complex and potentially unbalanced dynamic. While there are strong indicators of attraction and potential harmony, significant challenges suggest the relationship may be more one-sided than reciprocal, leaning heavily on the girl's (left chart) investment.
Evidence for a One-Sided Relationship (leaning towards the girl):
Sun (Girl) Conjunctions: The girl's Sun forms conjunctions with Black Moon Lilith and Juno in the boy's chart. Black Moon Lilith represents shadow aspects of the feminine, potentially indicating the girl taking on a disproportionate amount of emotional responsibility or feeling burdened by the relationship's dynamics. Juno represents commitment and marriage, suggesting the girl may be more invested in the long-term potential than the boy.
Moon (Girl) Aspects: The girl's Moon (emotions) experiences several challenging aspects: opposition to Venus (boy's values and affections), square to Saturn (boy's restrictions and responsibilities), square to Neptune (boy's illusions and escapism), and square to Chiron (boy's wounds). These aspects suggest the girl's emotional needs may not be met, leading to frustration and disappointment. The conjunction with the Vertex further emphasizes the fated or karmic nature of this connection, but doesn't necessarily indicate reciprocity.
Mars (Boy) Aspects: The boy's Mars (drive, action) conjuncts the Ascendant (self-image) and opposes the Descendant (relationships) in the girl's chart. This suggests a strong focus on his own needs and desires within the relationship, potentially at the expense of the girl's. The square to Ceres (nurturing) indicates potential conflict around emotional caregiving.
Venus (Boy) Aspects: While Venus trines Pluto (intensity, transformation), suggesting a deep connection, the opposition to Pallas (wisdom, strategy) and squares to Pholus (sudden change, trauma) indicate potential for conflict and emotional instability. The sextile to the girl's Ascendant and trine to her Descendant suggest a superficial attraction, but not necessarily deep emotional engagement.
Evidence for Reciprocity (limited):
Sun (Girl) Trines: The girl's Sun forms trines to Mars (boy's drive), Neptune (boy's idealism), and Chiron (boy's wounds), suggesting potential for understanding and healing. These aspects indicate a capacity for empathy and support.
Moon (Girl) Trines: The girl's Moon forms trines to Mercury (boy's communication), Uranus (boy's unconventionality), and the North Node (boy's destiny), suggesting potential for positive communication and shared growth.
Mutual Aspects: The sextile between the Moons and the trine between the Mercurys indicate some level of mental and emotional compatibility.
Conclusion:
The synastry chart strongly suggests a more one-sided relationship, with the girl exhibiting significantly more emotional investment and experiencing more challenges in meeting her emotional needs. While there are positive aspects indicating potential for connection and growth, the overall picture points to an imbalance that needs addressing for the relationship to be truly reciprocal. The boy's chart shows less emotional engagement and a stronger focus on his own needs and desires. The crush may be more strongly felt by the girl. Further investigation into the individual birth charts would provide a more complete understanding.
